The period from Navratri to Bhai Dooj is filled with excitement, joy, and festivities. Home decorations, sweets, new clothes, and the frequent visits of relatives add to the joyous atmosphere. Children also want to enjoy the festivities and become demanding, which troubles their parents and makes the festival a bit challenging for you. What should you do in such a situation?

Demand for Firecrackers

You hesitate to buy firecrackers for your children, fearing they could harm them. However, when your children see their friends or neighbors using them, they insist on using them, upsetting you. In such a situation, you should patiently and lovingly explain to them the environmental damage and the impact of firecrackers on animals. Children have a tender hearts and understand things quickly. Explain the true significance of festivals and suggest ways to enhance them with alternatives like rangoli, diyas, and sweets, so they can celebrate happily without firecrackers.

Following the example of their peers

Buying household items on Dhanteras is considered auspicious, but teenage children, following the example of their peers, often insist on buying a bike, scooter, or other expensive items, which is inappropriate for their age. In such situations, it is the responsibility of parents to explain the reasons for their refusal in a loving and understanding manner. Instead of directly refusing or scolding, explain by giving examples so that children understand and make informed decisions.

Clothing like friends

In the age of social media, children want to look perfect, so they insist on expensive and new clothes. In such situations, parents should listen carefully to their children and understand their feelings. Instead of directly refusing, explain the necessary expenses for this season. If your child is a teenager, share a list of expenses with them and involve them in household chores. Let them know that the price of the clothes doesn't matter; they can look special and beautiful in any outfit.

The Temptation of Sweets

Young children often crave sweets, chocolates, and candies during festivals, sometimes overindulging. Parents should remind their children to brush their teeth before bed to keep their teeth healthy. Also, involve children in activities like making diyas, wrapping gifts, creating rangoli, or decorating the house. Choose homemade sweets instead of store-bought sweets, or provide nuts and fruits to help keep children healthy.

Emphasize Outings

Festival fairs are held at various places, which are crowded. This can make children demand outings. This can be a problem for working parents. It's best to take your children to fairs or parks on weekdays, when the crowds are less. Additionally, invite some of your children's friends and organize small events at home so they can enjoy the festival safely and comfortably.

The Difference Between Love and Stubbornness

Child psychologist Gargi Malgudi explains that it's parents' duty to explain the significance of festivals to their children so they feel connected to their culture. To reduce children's stubbornness, involve them in festive activities. Encourage them to help those who can't celebrate festivals by serving, donating, or supporting them. For children who follow their friends, use their own examples. Also, respect their children's wishes and explain some things to them, so they can understand the difference between love and stubbornness. When children feel understood, they will give up their stubbornness and listen to you. This way, they will understand that the true purpose of festivals is to unite everyone and celebrate.

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