Parenting Tips: Most people scold and reprimand their children for their mistakes, and sometimes even resort to physical punishment. Constantly stopping, correcting, or forbidding them from doing things makes children stubborn. Parents often blame their children for their stubborn and defiant behavior and try to correct them with strictness. But experts say that the parents' own mistakes are often behind children's stubborn behavior. Parents' wrong behavior affects their children's behavior.

Which habits of parents make children stubborn?
1. Being too commanding:

Forbidding children from doing everything, correcting them at every turn, telling them "don't go here," "don't do this," and imposing your rules on everything makes children stubborn. Young children's brains are not always ready for constant control, so they resist and want to have their own way.

2. Inconsistency in discipline:

If you are not consistent in enforcing discipline and rules, it can confuse children. Allowing something at one time and then suddenly forbidding the same thing increases confusion in children.

3. Ignoring emotions:

When a child is upset and we simply scold them and tell them to correct their behavior, the child becomes frustrated.

4. Excessive screen time:

Spending too much screen time, i.e., spending too much time on mobile phones, TV, or laptops, makes children live in a fantasy world. Because of this, their real life starts to seem boring and slow to them.

Tips for good parenting:
It is very important to understand your child. Have deep conversations, understand their world, and find solutions accordingly.

Try to understand their emotions. If they are upset about something, instead of scolding them, try to understand them and help them.

The role of parents is not just to send their children to school every day and manage their daily routines, but also to connect with them emotionally. They should provide emotional support and understand their children's feelings.

When you say no to something, you need to explain the reason why you are preventing them from doing it and why it is wrong.

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