From the beginning of puberty, we are told fabricated stories about sex, which we easily believe. People who are sexually active must be aware of these 10 false stories related to sex. 

10 Weird myths and facts about sex

1. Real-life sex is like pornography

If you are not sexually active, then this may surprise you. Let us tell you that the first time sex is physically and emotionally awkward, dirty and a little painful. Know that pornography is choreographed and everything is planned in advance. 

Many factors affect real life sex, it depends on you, who you are having sex with, environment, stress etc. So do not consider the first time sex to be as romantic as the movies in which all the actions and reactions are perfect.

It is also important to keep in mind that you should not be nervous during sex. The more comfortable you feel with your partner, the more you will be able to enjoy sex.  

2. Pulling out is the loophole to enjoy sex without protection 

If you think that pulling out is a method of safe sex that can prevent pregnancy, then you are making a big mistake. Only lucky people can be winners in this. This method does not protect against sexually transmitted diseases and infections.

It is a big myth that you can get pregnant only if your partner ejaculates in the vagina.   

3. Women always need to pop an emergency contraceptive pill the next morning after they have had sex 

Another lie, birth control pills are for emergencies and must be taken within 72 hours. Like if the condom breaks or you have not used protection.  

Also keep in mind that birth control pills should not become a habit. They are a very heavy hormonal dose that can have negative effects. Moreover, they do not protect you from sexually transmitted diseases.

4. You can't get pregnant if you have sex on your period 

If having sex during periods seems right to avoid unwanted pregnancy, then no one is more irresponsible than you. You can get pregnant even during periods because pregnancy does not depend on periods but on the stay of sperm in the womb.  

In most women who have a 28-day cycle, ovulation occurs between the 10th and 15th day. Those with a shorter cycle may ovulate earlier. Do not forget that sperm can live in the body for up to five days, which causes pregnancy. Always use condoms to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

5. All women orgasm every time during vaginal sex

Many studies suggest that 75% of women do not experience orgasm during vaginal intercourse. According to research in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, 37% of women use other forms of stimulation for pleasure. If not vaginal intercourse, then clitoral stimulation helps a woman reach orgasm.   

6. Hymen is the Holy Grail to ascertain a woman's virginity 

First of all, it is 2024 and secondly, it is time to distance ourselves from words like virginity. Instead, words like first time can be used.  

If you look back into ancient history, a woman's hymen was associated with a lot of expectations and importance. White bedsheets were even used to check if there was blood during sex.

Yes, a woman may bleed during her first sexual encounter but this is not a way to test her virginity. It is important to note here that many women are born without a hymen, while some may not bleed during their first sexual encounter. Also, the hymen may break if the woman exercises daily.  

7. Gravity can prevent the sperm from reaching the egg

Gravity is a powerful force, but it prevents sperm from reaching the egg. It is a myth that standing up and having sex can prevent unwanted pregnancies.

When millions of sperms enter the vagina during ejaculation, no amount of cleaning or urinating can stop them from entering. In such a situation, having unsafe sex means inviting an unwanted pregnancy.

8. Oral sex is safe 

Do you think oral sex can prevent STDs? However, oral sex involves the exchange of body fluids, which increases the risk of STDs or STIs.  

9. Condoms are 100% effective

Condoms can protect you from STDs or STIs and prevent unwanted pregnancies if used properly. For this, use only good quality condoms.

10. Drinking alcohol can calm your nerves before having sex

Whoever gave this idea must be a drunkard because nothing like this happens. On the contrary, when you drink alcohol before sex, it reduces your ability to take the right decision.

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