Parental conflict effects on children: Raising a child is no less than a challenge for every parent. No matter how well they do for their child, they need to pay attention to their behavior. Many parents fulfill every demand of their little one, but make the mistake of fighting in front of them. You do not even realize how your fight can affect the child's mind, and the innocent child suddenly becomes silent. Parents should never fight in front of their children.

The child feels broken.

In the eyes of the child, his parents are his world. He has seen you with him since childhood. You are his idol. In such a situation, when he sees his parents fighting, he starts feeling broken. Elders can express their thoughts, but small children do not know how to speak from the heart. They do not know how to explain emotions. They may not understand the words of the parents, but an angry face scares them. They watch their parents silently and start blaming themselves for their fight. They feel that they have caused tension between the parents. They gradually start suppressing their feelings and become silent.

Can become a victim of loneliness
The children of parents who fight in front of their children gradually start distancing themselves from them. They can become victims of anxiety, depression, and loneliness. Seeing the bitterness of their parents, they start losing faith in relationships. Such children are unable to form a relationship with anyone in the future, and neither do they get married, because it gets embedded in their mind that relationships are toxic. They feel emotionally insecure.

If you fight, say everything in front of the children.
Parenting expert Ketan Tilve says that couples who fight in front of their children later say sorry to each other, but when they say so, the children are either in school or playing. In such a situation, they do not know that there is love and not bitterness between the parents, and they are also saying sorry to each other. Because the child has only seen the anger of the parents, not the apology. By the way, no parent should fight in front of the children, and if they fight, they should say sorry in front of them. In such a situation, the message goes to the child that anyone can make a mistake, anger can come at any time, but forgiveness can be given, and an apology can also be sought for it. Children learn things from your actions and not from your words. With this, they will not consider themselves responsible for this fight and will learn to say and ask for sorry in life. With this, somewhere the children also learn to bow down and adjust to the relationship.

Tell the child - we are together.
Always be alert so that your fight does not affect the mental health of the child. Even if a fight starts, put the matter aside after looking at the child. Or go to another room. If there is a fight, then both parents should sit and talk to the child and assure him that sometimes mom and dad argue but we both are together and love you very much.

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