There is indeed no one definition or one way of 'right upbringing', yet some tips for upbringing can prove to be very helpful in keeping your child happy. Raising children is a big challenge for every parent. They always have this question in their mind how to make their children the best. The way cases of crime and depression are being seen among teenage children in the present time has increased the worry further. In today's time, raising a child is not just about fulfilling his needs, but with the changing times, raising children has become a very difficult task for parents in the current environment.

In today's era, parents have to be very careful and take special care of children to raise them, because today's children are not only very sensitive but are also hyperactive. No one knows when and what thing gets into the hearts of children. A small mistake in raising children can shatter the dreams of parents. Therefore, today we will tell you some golden rules of parenting, by following which you can raise your children better.

Understand the world of children.

First, accept that a 9-10-year-old child is now a teenager and is slowly leaving the imaginary world. At this time he needs a guardian the most. At this age, curiosity and priorities change rapidly. The child does not ask who created the world. He starts asking why the world is like this. It is important to answer many such questions. Keep yourself updated. Get out of the role of a mother or father and become a friend of the children. His age-mates in school and playground do not give any conclusion. They only discuss, that is, they exchange what they are told and taught at home. Do not assume that this is the age to make a career, rather understand that this is the age that makes him self-confident. Therefore, do not impose your wishes on him.

Give true love, not everything asked for

People mistakenly think that loving your children means fulfilling their every demand. If you give them everything they ask for, you are doing a big fool. If you love your child, give him only what is necessary. When you love someone, you do what is right for him without worrying about being his favorite.

Teach children not by words, but by actions.

Children learn by observing their surroundings. In such a situation, set an example in front of the child through your behavior, which is what you expect from him. If you want your child not to abuse, not to scream, not to listen, to respect elders, then you have to set an example for him. You cannot expect good behavior from the child while using abusive language yourself.

Patience is the most important.

While raising a child, a mother needs to have patience. Young children throw tantrums, are stubborn, and make many mistakes, in such a situation mother has to deal with them without losing patience.

Avoid comparing your child with anyone.

Children should be encouraged as much as possible. Comparing children with any other child is against the rules of parenting. Comparing children can hurt your child's confidence and self-esteem. If you tell your child that you are not better, he is better than you, and he does better than you, by doing this you discourage the child and the child will be very disappointed with you and will not feel like doing anything.

Give him time

If parents look at their daily routine instead of children, they will find that they are busier than children with TV, internet, smartphone, and other useless things. Nowadays it is common to spend 15-16 hours in the office or business. After this time you hardly give even 2 hours to the children and even if you do, then most of the time you keep explaining to them, and keep giving advice. This gives you false satisfaction of fulfilling your responsibilities but the children gain nothing. Give as much time as possible to the children. Play with them, roam around with them. Become a child yourself. Forget that you are their parent. Just remember that you are their friend.

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