A video of a child (KBC Kid's Video) is rapidly going viral on social media. This video, from the show Kaun Banega Crorepati, is raising questions about the child's behavior. Some say the child is spoiled or overconfident.

However, others, instead of blaming the child, are questioning parenting. They say the child is behaving this way due to Six Pocket Syndrome. This raises the question of what Six Pocket Syndrome is and how it can affect a child's personality. Let's learn more about this from senior psychologist Monica Sharma.

What does "Six Pocket" mean?
Six Pocket refers to six different sources from which a child can receive more attention and resources these days. These sources are parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. All of these "pockets" are always ready to fulfill a child's every desire. Whether it's a new toy, a favorite food, unsolicited help, or excessive praise for every small task.

This syndrome isn't limited to only children. Rather, it develops when all the adults around a child, often with good intentions, immediately fulfill their every demand and protect them from facing life's small troubles and disappointments.

What are the symptoms of Six Pocket Syndrome?
Excessive dependency - They rely on adults for even small tasks, such as carrying their own bags, eating, or tying their shoes.

Lack of patience - They don't like to wait for anything. Their every wish must be met immediately.

Difficulty sharing - They find it difficult to share their things with others. They have very little sense of sharing.

Frustration intolerance - When things don't go their way, they become easily angered or aggressive, cry, or become stressed.

A hunger for praise - They need praise and validation for every small and big task. Without praise, their self-confidence begins to waver.

What impact does this have on children's development?
Lack of a sense of responsibility - Because children are never allowed to face the consequences of their actions, they fail to develop a sense of responsibility. They don't learn that their decisions affect themselves and others.

Emotional vulnerability - A child with six-pocket syndrome is unprepared for disappointment and challenges. Even the slightest failure or criticism can shatter them.

Lack of social skills - Learning to share toys with friends, take turns, and compromise is essential. Such children often become stubborn and selfish, making it difficult for them to make friends and maintain relationships.

Lack of self-confidence - Adults solve every problem for them, which prevents them from becoming self-reliant. They lack confidence in their abilities.

Unrealistic expectations - Such a child begins to perceive the world as a place that always revolves around their desires. The real world, with its competition and challenges, can be a major shock.

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