Marriage Tips For Son: Marriage is not just a bond between two people, but it is a bond between two families. It is often seen that it takes time to adjust to new relationships. In such a situation, when parents send off their daughter, they teach her some lessons on how to live in her in-laws' house, how to be a good wife and daughter-in-law. However, boys are rarely taught in families how to be a better husband and son-in-law after marriage.

A girl is mentally and practically ready to adjust in her in-laws' house after marriage, but boys are not ready for this situation. Before marriage, the parents must explain some important things to their son, so that the new daughter-in-law feels at home in her in-laws' house. Prepare the son mentally for changes before marriage so that he can not only become a good husband, but also a responsible son and son-in-law. Only an understanding son can keep two families together and make the daughter-in-law feel like a true 'home' in her in-laws' house.

Equal status of wife

Teach your son that after marriage, his wife is not only his responsibility but also his life partner. Involve her in every decision of the house. Respect your wife's feelings and opinions. Daughter-in-law is not a guest but a permanent part of the house.

Balance between old and new relationships

After marriage, the son often gets entangled between his mother and wife. Explain to him that harmony is important in relationships, not comparison. If the son maintains balance, then neither the daughter-in-law will have any problem in the house, nor will the mother complain. Prepare him in advance for such a situation that if there is some disagreement between his wife and mother, then what should he do so that the differences between the two can be reduced, and neither side is taken.

Cooperation in household chores

Explain to your son before marriage that household chores are not just the responsibility of women. Sometimes, helping the wife with small things connects her emotionally and strengthens the relationship. Just like a daughter, ask your son to also help out in household chores so that he does not hesitate in helping his wife, and he develops an understanding of household chores.

Make your daughter-in-law's family your own

Teach your son that just like the daughter-in-law will live in this family after marriage, considering them as her parents, the son must respect his wife's parents in the same way. Consider your daughter-in-law's parents and family as your own, so that she does not face any problem in accepting her in-laws. It is not only the daughter-in-law's duty but also the son's duty to unite both families.

Do not share personal matters with others

Things between husband and wife are personal. Teach your son that telling small things outside or sharing everything with parents can lead to misunderstandings. The mark of a good husband is that he maintains the dignity of his relationship.

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